The Seven Hermetic Principles Series
- Oct 8, 2025
- 10 min read
Updated: Jan 2
The Principle of Gender-A Conversation with Paul Walker

Don’t really feel like channeling but do kind of. I’m in an energy I don’t recognize at the moment but I recognize him so let’s continue with the series.
P: Nothing changes. Absolutely…how long have we been partnered up?
K: I don’t know. January…2015…something or other.
P: And in all that time, you have not learned to break. Take a break. Rest. What’s with you?
K: Restless.
P: No kidding.
K: Couldn’t sleep last night. I have this feeling of something’s about to happen and it’s like I’m pacing in front of a window waiting for a phone to ring…type of feeling.
P: Okay.
K: So, I thought I would put that energy into channeling because I have some time, and I wouldn’t mind spending some time with you.
P: (small smile) Always, Kim but…okay. You win. You said what I needed to hear so you win. The series?
K: Sure. So, here’s the thing.
P: (sits back and stares at me)
K: I have realized that I’m not okay with rehashing a lot of what’s out there in terms of energy coming in. I can’t do that gravy train anymore.
P: Good.
K: I know. Totally, right? I feel like…there is this space I’m in where nothing is fitting like it used to and since we started this series, it’s really the only thing that feels like it fits in terms of stuff to channel.
P: I get it.
K: But…I don’t know which one to do next.
P: Let’s do an easy one. Let’s talk about gender for a minute. For one, it’s sexy because it’s everywhere right now and for two, I don’t feel like it’s something that’s really understood. And I don’t want to get into it like it’s this powerplay human thing. That’s not what our work is about but that powerplay does factor in a bit.
K: For sure.
P: Because you have the sexy gender reveal parties right now. You have the gender disappointment. You have the gender fluidity that’s a hot topic right now. But it’s all very…(wags two fingers at me) one or the other. One weighs more than the other depending on the person. One is felt way more than the other in a physical…flesh and bones body. Neither is felt at all in a body. But it’s still…one or the other or one weighs more than the other.
K: Okay.
P: But that’s sex. When it comes down to it…it’s sex. The Hermetic Principle is about the energy. It’s about the divinity. It is not about the vagina or the penis but…that’s a power all on its own and if people want me to give a spiritual…energetic talk about the vagina and penis…I’d be more than happy to.
K: Oh boy.
P: Straight up…(stops himself then laughs) People get your minds out of those gutters!
K: I mean…
P: I know. I know.
K: You sort of walked into that one, Walker.
P: I’m still a big kid.
K: You are.
P: I still had a lot of growing up to do when I died.
K: For sure.
P: Anyway, this principle is feminine and masculine but people…still…to this day…have their hang-ups on making that about the man and the woman but it’s not. Not really. Maybe…1% is the physicality. Mrs. …what’s the principle say?
K: It states, basically, "Gender is in everything; in all things there is both a masculine and feminine principle". But this is more about what you were saying. The divine…the creative forces instead of biology.
P: Yes.
K: Then, for creation…for manifestation, both of these forces need to be in play before anything can be created.
P: Yes.
K: But if we’re discussing…God…let’s take God as and example because God is perceived as a masculine energy.
P: In truth, God is both the divine aspects so Is the Divine Creation…not so much the creator. It’s Source Creation and language really fucks things up here because it’s the creation and not really the creator.
K: Oh boy.
P: There is a lot of this technicality shit built into this principle. Witches…are great at using this in their spell work. Druids, Shamans…Pagans in general are really great at knowing and understanding this principle because in all energy…in all creation there is a masculine and a feminine that is part of this in equal measure. It’s ritualistic and it’s part of the rituals of creation because it’s not about man or woman. It’s masculine and feminine that creates the energy of something new. When someone is…looking at plants…using plant medicine or using plant magic…they are considering the feminine or masculine energy and that, together, creates the healing…the medicine.
K: Yes.
P: Even in your Chinese Medicine practices, part of the healing is the energy that is labeled as masculine or feminine and what is imbalanced…what is weak and what is excess. But Chinese Medicine…all medicine is part of this Hermetic Principle because medicine is, whether you like it or not, spell work. Medicine is magic.
K: Cool!
P: Anything and everything that is created, including and especially on planets and dimensions that are free will and choice, need both energies to be balanced. Before anyone can possibly wrap their brains around a triple helix strand of DNA, they must understand the dual helix of DNA and the dual is the energy of the masculine and the feminine. They dance around each other in that act of creation. DNA is just another example of this Hermetic Principle.
K: Why do you think that people take the divinity of the masculine and the feminine and make it male or female?
P: Because that’s how it manifests on Earth. Because this planet is a planet of choice…of free will…choice is divided. It’s an either/or situation. It’s man and woman and everything comes from that. It’s because that’s what humans know life to be. Vagina and penis.
K: Got it.
P: But beyond the physical manifestation of what is considered “feminine” and “masculine” there is so much intricacy involved within and without…like the Principle of Correspondence.
K: Again, it’s so interconnected.
P: (nods) It is.
K: Here’s a question. If someone is feeling like they were born the wrong gender…is that because they are connecting to one aspect more than the other?
P: Both are present. In all things, both are present which can be a bit disconcerting to someone who doesn’t really understand the reality of it but only gets the illusion of it. It’s…the feeling. It’s the personality that someone is more connected with and by personality, I mean the personality of how the masculine or feminine presents within the human. I mean, there are a lot of factors that are within that gender fluidity or feeling like you’re more of a woman than a man. Again, this isn’t about the physical expression of one or the other. This is the all-encompassing part of All That Is that is disregarded in its truth and regarded more about how it’s presented.
K: It seems pretty cut and dry.
P: I think that the point to get across is that it’s equal footing because equally, both are required for manifestation and creation. Let’s look at manifestation for a second and I’m going to talk about it in extremes and…people will come at me regardless…so it doesn’t matter.
K: Got it.
P: Masculine…survival…desperate…pleading. Bully energy. Power…must have…too much…it’s a bully. Too little…it’s fear…coward. Let me backtrack…within any of it, both masculine and feminine, there are extremes in that too. Masculine is primal…let’s just say that. So, if a person is going to try to manifest using only primal, if it’s over-control or desperate, nothing will be created from that except more of the same. Begging…nothing is created from begging.
K: Got it.
P: Feminine…nurturing, soft, magic, psychic…not very physical at all…it’s what connects to the divine more than the masculine. It’s the creative and not so much the logic. It’s the feeling.
K: Okay.
P: The extremes sort of play out the same way. Overthinking…turning into the fear of something not happening. Too emotional…nothing can land or ground…can’t connect to the nurture so that heart is closed off.
K: Yes.
P: But…if you’re looking at the extreme of the masculine…in that depleted sense…people think of a “weak man” (finger quote) as a pussy…right?
K: I mean….
P: They are made out to be weak…woman…that degraded feminine. That “weak man”.
K: I see it.
P: And a feminist… “too masculine” (finger quote). “Butch”. The woman is emasculated…becomes that “man”.
K: Okay.
P: It’s still very one sided…it’s just…if something is seen as extreme within the masculine/feminine…it turns to masculine/feminine because humans can’t help themselves but gravitate to that either or and one is always less than or more than. Creation is not the either/or. It is both of them…or, if we really want to get to the truth of it…it’s All of It. And when people can get back to that idea where it’s not picking sides or feeling this one day and that the next…when it’s All of It…Lemuria returns. Lemuria is rebirthed.
K: The Lemurians came in being both “genders”…or were they androgynous?
P: They were both genders. They were the twin flame union in one big blue humanoid.
K: Ah…blue flame.
P: There you go.
K: Question.
P: Sure.
K: Even if the twin flame got together and made peace with themselves…
P: Yeah.
K: They still wouldn’t be the blue flame right away, would they?
P: Not until they got it out of their brains that it’s one or the other…it’s both. And…guess what people that are so hell bent on knowing or connecting with their twin flame energy and you’re a woman…what if it’s another woman and you consider yourself straight? If you’re a man…what if it’s another man and you are totally against same sex union but it’s the twin flame…your divine counterpart expressing themselves in a male form…but it’s still that divine feminine…just being expressed on Earth as Male?
K: Oh boy.
P: Again, this stuff isn’t just within human terms. It’s divine. It’s the energy. It’s the energy of creation. It’s not just coming together to make babies. That’s not the sole act of creation. That’s part of it. That’s an expression of it but it’s not all of it. Let’s talk orgasm.
K: Great.
P: Orgasm is the union…the energetic union of the divine feminine and the divine masculine within one energetic…cosmic…blissful moment of fifteen seconds. Doesn’t matter if it’s with one person or two. It’s the coming…
K: Dirty old man!!!! For real!!!!
P: (grins and winks) Only for you, Kim.
K: Please…finish…
P: (stares at me in silence until I get it)
K: You’re an asshole!
P: Okay, okay. (chuckles) Orgasm is the energetic union of both divine masculine and divine feminine, within one body, creating which is why it feels good and can be addictive. The addiction is because of the blissed out urgency, for those few seconds, to feel absolutely and completely…one; becoming the singular which is what an orgasm is. It’s the two becoming one for the divine act of creation. Orgasm…a star is born. Orgasm…a planet forms. Orgasm…complete remembrance and resonance with your higher self for a few seconds. Orgasm…act of creation regardless of if it’s with someone or solo. Because the divine feminine and masculine are contained in all things. The union of that and connecting with both equally and self-expression is the breath. If someone were to breathe…with an orgasm…it would feel a lot bigger than if they just continued to hold their breath.
K: Oh boy. You’re exhausting.
P: I’m exhausting because a lot of this stuff is taboo and you’re holding your breath because you don’t want to rock any boats.
K: This is true.
P: But off the phone, we’ve talked way deeper than this so don’t give me your mask of uncomfortable when it’s only put on to not to be shit disturber because…people.
K: I know. People. For real.
P: You have to ask yourself…why, if people don’t want the grit of spirituality…why are they practicing it then. Where are my witches and druids at? I want to know because they get this stuff. It’s hard to practice it on the daily though because humanity has changed even since five…ten years ago.
K: Yes. It certainly has. People tend to think in opposites but if were talking about yin/yang…there’s a little bit in each while being separate.
P: Because they are complimenting each other. They are not working against each other and really, in any partnership, that’s the best kind.
K: When you look at the DNA…they look like bridges.
P: Again, it’s complementing each other. It’s communicating with each other to grow life. They are both separate while together. It’s the double entendre of life. That’s it…(wags a finger at me) The Hermetic Principle of gender is the double entendre of life. (shrugs) It’s kind of cool when looked at it like that.
K: Risqué…which is why the taboo talk because you like to see me turn red.
P: Still cute.
K: You turn red too!
P: I do. But I’m man enough to admit it.
K: (laughing)
P: Have you come down from your back-to-back Saturday?
K: Have you?
P: No. (grins and rubs his bottom lip while remembering) That was…somethin’ else. I enjoyed it. I enjoyed meeting everyone, but I especially enjoyed the response to your light. I dig that. When it hits someone, and it brings tears to their eyes. That’s something that I just can’t get used to. You know you’re a lightworker when.
K: Yeah. The crowds were very cool. It was a great market.
P: Really great.
K: Anything else on gender…that is based on the principles?
P: No. I’m good. I’ll stick around for a bit though.
K: Cool. Okey dokey, pokey…
P: (chuckles) Pokey…
K: Could you please grow up? Please. I’m begging you.
P: I’d never make you beg. (big smile)
K: (narrowing my eyes into a glare) Are you done? (thinks) Shit!
P: Seriously, Kim. How long have we known each other.
K: I’m going. I can’t…anything I say, you’re going to make dirty.
P: I promise…don’t go.
K: (mimicking) Don’t go. Ass.
P: (chuckles)

